As some of you know, we have been in the media a little bit lately! We are telling our story and the need for Jameson’s prosthesis. We have received so much positive feedback which has been wonderful! But, I am finding out, that there are a few negative Nelly’s or Nancy’s, or whatever you call them. Some people are judging our decision to have our baby fitted for prosthesis. I understand that everyone is entitled to their opinion. That is fine. I just want to clear the air, so to speak, and let everyone know just why we feel the need for his prosthetic hands.
I had one mother directly compare her child born missing one hand to Jameson. That to me is like comparing apples to oranges. I’m not saying that missing one hand is not difficult, I’m just saying that’s a far different scenario. In fact when I was still pregnant, I sobbed many times wondering why couldn’t my baby just have one hand. This mother said and I quote “I would never buy my 9 month old expensive prosthesis….he will teach you a thing or two.” She’s right about one thing, he will teach us a thing or two, in fact he already does everyday!
As I have said before it is important to us as Jameson’s parents to try to give him ALL possible tools to have a better chance at a normal life. Because he is missing BOTH hands, the level of difficulties he will face are considerable. Our thoughts are that if we provide every option for him now, he will be much more adapted by the time he goes to school. Babies learn so easily at this age and are so adaptable, they are like little sponges. Why train your child to do things with his feet, when tools are available to provide him with a more ‘normal’ life? Using his feet will be an option, but why not give him every option. I know there will be days that he will not want his prosthetics on, and that is ok. With today’s technology, how can we not give him all the opportunities available? It is unfortunate that the cost is so high. Unfortunate that money becomes a factor and health care is not the greatest. But we have to try everything in our power to make it happen. He is our most precious gift and we want to be able to help him thrive. There is NO DOUBT in my mind that Jameson will be great at many, many things with or without his prosthesis.